Comments on: A Question of Feelings https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/ The Events in Human Resources and Employee Relations space, and in My World through my eyes. Thu, 29 Jul 2021 07:22:08 +0000 hourly 1 By: Naganath Subramanian Iyer https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27057 Wed, 09 Jun 2021 05:02:38 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27057 Inspiring and well written.
Yes. We are so conditioned.

I am confronting myself as I write this.

I am a human being and let me confront what I want out of this life. Answers may not be simple. Why? Because one has to rid oneself of all the conditioning right from childhood. You take away that conditioning, and it is scary because you have nothing to hold on to, no justification, no nail to hang your dirty clothes etc You then start staring at the stark reality, yourself as a human being with your vulnerabilities, weaknesses, insanity, trickery, foolery, shadow, the Hyde in you. It’s scary . But unless that disrobing happens, you cant transform anew.
Is it possible, yes. Is it easy, No ?

]]> By: Vinita Charles https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27038 Sat, 05 Jun 2021 15:12:04 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27038 Super post Sir. Thought provoking and showing the path at the same time. Thanks for sharing ЁЯЩВ

]]> By: srividya https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27034 Fri, 04 Jun 2021 09:03:51 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27034 Hello Sir,

What a lovely post. Touching the soul. And very beautifully you have said – ‘intense conversations move at the speed of light. If you dont catch the moment, you have lost it.’ That is so so true, and I have so often found that happening. Some conversations have to happen right then, not later, not with a lot of after thought. It could change everything.

Another thing which resonates with me is this whole growing up business, and learning to not to live by others expectations. Oh over the years, every time I think I have overcome this deep necessity to comply with other’s expectation, I find yet another layer within, which still needs approval. How many more layers? and how many more years will it take?

Love your post Sir

]]> By: Varda Pendse https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27027 Wed, 02 Jun 2021 14:37:49 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27027 To express or not….to learn or not is a dilemma which is all pervasive.
But
Age sir is a number in our mind
And
Every interaction with you is about learning and looking at it from new perspective.
Zindagi ka safar…hain yeh kaisa safar
Koi samjha nahi…koi jaana nahi ?

]]> By: Dr Devendra Bora https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27026 Wed, 02 Jun 2021 13:20:18 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27026 Our feelings remain closest to our hearts, however it is a tough ask to decipher them.
By the time we articulate & bind sufficient courage to express, you are right Sir, it may have been late.

]]> By: Aravamudhan https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27023 Wed, 02 Jun 2021 06:30:47 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27023 Dear Mr. Patwardhan

As usual your Posting is short and loaded wit good message. For your information in my case, because of my outspoken attitude few have started distancing from me, Hence I became an introvert. Never the less, to counter the Virus Of Ignorance We continuously need Vaccines Of intellect from People of Greatness like Vivek, Wish you Age beyond 75 breaking your family Longevity
Aravamudhan

]]> By: Saniya https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27020 Tue, 01 Jun 2021 17:30:09 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27020 Such a deep one yet simple! Made me think and reflect. Very well written.

]]> By: Shrikant Kale https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27019 Tue, 01 Jun 2021 12:48:05 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27019 Very well written… рд╕рдВрдзреНрдпрд╛рдХрд╛рд│ рдЖрдгрд┐ рдорд╛рд░рд╡рд╛…. рдХреЛрдг рдЕрдВрддрд░реНрдореБрдЦ рд╣реЛрдгрд╛рд░ рдирд╛рд╣реА? рдкрдг рдкрд╛рдЪ рд╡рд░реНрд╖реЗрдЪ рд░рд╛рд╣рд┐рд▓реА рдЖрд╣реЗрдд рдЕрд╕реЗ рдЙрджрд╛рд╕ рд╡рд┐рдЪрд╛рд░ рдХрд╛?
рдХрд╡рд┐ рдмрд╛.рдн.рдмреЛрд░рдХрд░ рдореНрд╣рдгрддрд╛рдд…..
рдкрд┐рд▓рд╛рд╕ рдлреБрдЯреВрдиреА рдкрдВрдЦ рддрдпрд╛рдВрдЪреА рдШрд░рдЯреА рдЭрд╛рд▓реА рдХреБрдареЗ рдХреБрдареЗ
рд╣реА рддрд░ рдЖрдкреБрд▓реА рдХрд╛рдВрдЪрди рд╕рдВрдзреНрдпрд╛ рдореЗрдШрдбрдВрдмрд░реА рд╕реЛрдирдкреБрдЯреЗ

рддреЗрд╡реНрд╣рд╛ рд╣рд╛ рдХрд╛рд│ рдореНрд╣рдгрдЬреЗ рдХрд╛рдВрдЪрдирд╕рдВрдзреНрдпрд╛. I have written one poem on Marwa… May be I will share with you at some opportune time. That’s one of the ragas very close to my heart.Nishad and Rushabh in Marwa ….I have no words to describe.

BTW, I also read your earlier blog on life experience. From the reference of your father and mother in that blog, it looks like that’s based on your personal experience. Very touching.

Shrikant Kale

]]> By: Manisha Kelkar https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27018 Tue, 01 Jun 2021 12:42:58 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27018 Such a deep thought, captured so beautifully and delicately.

All our life we want to belong and deep down carry fear of intimacy.

How we complicate between desires and aspirations.

If only we could meet Lulu every day to remind us ЁЯЩВ

]]> By: Nandeeta Vengsarkarwagh https://vivekvsp.com/2021/06/feelings/#comment-27017 Tue, 01 Jun 2021 11:55:37 +0000 https://vivekvsp.com/?p=6871#comment-27017 To express or not to express ..a very poignant question. Sometimes you lose friends when you express sometimes when you dont . Sometimes when you express you let people peep into your world . Not sure if its about feminine nature but also our cultural mindset and upbringing, our misplaced sense of privacy .

Beautiful musings Sir .

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