Yes We Don’t Know What War Is
Yeva Skalietska writes in her diary, “I can’t stand the word ‘refugee.’ I never could. When Granny began referring to us as refugees, I immediately asked her to stop doing that. Inside it made me feel ashamed. I have only just understood why. I am ashamed to admit that I don’t have a home …. It’s felt unbearable ever since we fled our flat to go to the basement. My dream is that someday soon we will have our own place again.”
‘You Don’t Know What War Is’ is a diary of a twelve-year-old girl. Yeva Skalietska is Ukrainian and her life suddenly changed from a quiet peaceful one, to one of a refugee in just one week.
She lived with her grandmother, in the city of Kharkiv. It is the second largest city of Ukraine. Ten days before the war, on the 14th of February, Yeva celebrated her birthday and had no inkling of what was in store for her from 24th February.
Interestingly twelve-year-old Yeva Skalietska decided that she must write down ‘things as they happen’ in her diary. Yeva recorded what she saw and felt in her diary. It gives us a glimpse of how people’s lives go topsy-turvy because of war.
When Russian bombings became frequent, they decided to leave their home. Yeva and her granny stayed with her granny’s friend. They moved to the West, entered Hungary, and a reporter from Channel 4 (UK) recorded her interview and came to know that she had kept a diary of her life during the war. They helped Yeva and her granny to migrate to Ireland, though the journey was full of hurdles – for instance the granny did not have a passport – but good Samaritans helped them. And so did the reporters of Channel 4 who traced her story till she landed in Ireland.
Yeva later learnt that Russian bombs destroyed her home. In this era of ubiquitous mobile cameras, she even received pictures of her destroyed home. She misses her friends, her school, her city. Yet the diary does not read as a sob story.
This book is a ‘must-read’ because of the profound upheaval in Yeva’s life recorded with simple language and with maturity. It is an exceptional book because of the age of the author as well as the extreme situation of human suffering and tragedy.
The book is imaginatively produced by Bloomsbury with maps of their travel, photographs, screenshots of chats between Yeva and her friends.
Yeva Skalietska simply recorded the events as she saw in her diary, and it makes a big impact. As someone said, perhaps after Ann Frank’s Diary, this diary will go down as the one which will leave an indelible mark on the readers’ minds.
Vivek S Patwardhan
“What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others.” / Read more Lulu blogs in my book ‘The Lulu Duologues’
Feature Pic Courtesy: Yura Khomitskyi on Unsplash
Like Anne Frank’s diary …
Hello Vivek,
Your multidimensional reading takes us to those aspects of life (& death)that one can not imagin.Salute to your voracious reading.
No wonder our PM says DAYS OF WAR ARE OVER.
While reading this diary, the fragility of life sends shivers.
Keep touching our hearts as always!
Vivek ji
I enjoy reading your each and every article,share with my family members,try to digest the new angle ,new thoughts and the new dimension of Our Life
Our 🙏🏻🙏🏻 to you
Warm Rgds
Kudos Sir to you for touching on the various dimensions that life can surprisingly offer. A young full of dreams offers us a different narrative of what she had to go through when unforeseen circumstances hit her life. And yet with grit and resolve she puts pen to paper to narrate her experiences to this Universe.
Her planned escapades with the Universe conspiring for her, I am sure, has a certain well crafted plan in store for the future.
Another Malala in the making….Nobel Prize awardee in the making.
Gratitude Sir for foraying into different topics.
Thanks for bringing this to my notice Vivek. Will look it up. With what is happening worldwide (including India), you do not need wars to feel that you are a refugee.
Thanks for bringing this gem to our notice! Immediately on my agenda now!
Dear Vivek
Thanks for sharing,,,very insightful as all your articles/blogs
Yes, the war and its scars are bad,refugees status is even worse .
We have the case of Kashmir ..where people were turned into refugees in their very own country( India) !!!!
I wish to clarify that I am just sharing what has gone thru in India during our own lifetime 😎
Luckily, the rest of the country came out and helped/supported their rehabilitation over 3 decades
PLEASE, I Am NOT holding the flag for any Political party/group/debates or Film ….which are all distractions n dilution of the Issue
People who go thru such nightmarish experience for no fault of theirs suffer the most
Wars and other violence against
continue to cause sufferings to
Humanity. We do not know how many innocent YEVAS are displaced as Refugees. This is yet another vulgar display of Ego, Inaction and total disregard to human sufferings .
Thanks for your sharing
Aravamudhan
Thanks dear Vivek!You always touch a cord that evokes reflection and moves me in a direction of goodness. God bless you for touching a million lives. Someone said ” You can count the number of seeds in an apple, but you can’t count the number of apples in a seed”
Thanks for sharing and recommending the book. I have already placed an order from Amazon…reading your post compelled me to…..