On Anticipatory Obedience
“I have stopped reading on HR issues” I told Lulu, my parrot, as I flung the newspaper on the table. “It no longer holds my interest.”
“Arrrey! That’s the work you did all along your career. No interest?” Lulu, my parrot, was perched on the iron grill of window.
“No interest, Lulu. Zilch!”
“Watching movies? You like that?”
“Nope! Emotional dramas make me uncomfortable.”
“You must be liking movies with a lot of violence. Like ‘Narcos’. Boom, boom!”
“Actually yes! At least it ends one conflict quickly. Though it leads to another.”
“So, you want all conflicts to end quickly. That’s interesting.”
“Who does not wish it?”
Jill, my Siamese cat, walked in stealthily. She jumped on my study table, settled there and glanced at Lulu who quickly moved sideways to make sure that he was not in the easy reach of Jill. Suddenly there was ‘deafening silence’ in the room.
“We were discussing conflicts, Jill. And how everybody wants conflicts to end quickly.”
Jill closed her beautiful blue eyes, and opened them as she spoke, “That’s wishful thinking. Conflicts do not end on their own. I have seen many persons taking steps to avoid conflict.”
“Yes. Many avoid it in anticipation! Tut, tut! They call it ‘anticipatory obedience’.” Lulu gave an approving nod to Jill who ignored him, twirled her tail. Jill was about to close her eyes when she noticed something, and stood up on my table.
Jack, my Great Dane entered. He surveyed the room, and stared at the sofa, looked at me and decided not to perch on it. He found a place near my chair and sat down there, wagged his tail and looked at me. I patted him.
“Yup! ‘Anticipatory Obedience.’ You got it right, Lulu. Here is an instance of anticipatory obedience…..” Jill gestured toward Jack.
“What’s that?” Jack asked.
“You imagined a constraint – and thought that perching on the sofa is not okay and won’t be approved by him,” Lulu pointed to me, “although he has said nothing to you. Didn’t you obey in anticipation.”
“And you obeyed in advance.” Jill said.
“Volumes have been written on this subject. I guess it came in sharp focus because of Hitler and his actions. But I am no Hitler.” I rubbed my hand on Jack.
“True. But presence of anybody in power can make people engage in anticipatory obedience.” Lulu said. “Don’t you see how servile politicians can be?”
“Oh yes! We see them in Congress as well as in BJP. Plenty. Who doesn’t know about Stanley Milgram’s experiment on obedience to authority?” Jill asked. “Do you know about it, Jack?”
The Great Dane did not like the question. He looked at me. “All I know is that he is my master” he said in a gruffy voice. “For me, his words are a command.”
“I was at a Grocery store yesterday. They were allowing only five persons to do shopping inside the store. Covid pandemic! Presence of a hefty security man at the entrance ensured that all stood in a queue outside. All obeyed, nobody grumbled. There is something about men in Uniform.” Lulu is a keen observer.
“There is some evidence that Hitler’s army Generals ordered many cruel actions without his express instructions. Why go that far in history? What is your experience of meetings? Many persons speak what would meet the approval of the Boss, approvingly of his line of thought as they imagine.” Jill said.
“Oh, yes. That happens everywhere. Pope said that the Earth was flat and everybody toed the line, although several men knew that it was round much before Copernicus.” Lulu said. “And those who spoke the truth were punished, like Galileo.”
“Timothy Snyder puts it so aptly. He says, “Much of the power of authoritarianism is freely given. In times like these, individuals think ahead about what a more repressive government will want and then offer themselves without being asked. A citizen who adapts in this way is teaching power what it can do.”
“Do you remember what Vinda Karandikar wrote in his poem? He wrote, “My hope stands on 440 legs.” He was referring to the 220 jurors who held that Socrates was not guilty in the famous trial.” Jill said. Jack, my Great Dane, yawned. He quietly got up, shook his head and walked out.
“True. There were 500 jurors. And 280 held him guilty. Who knows, some may have engaged in anticipatory obedience and held him guilty! It happens, right?”
“Certainly, Jill. What values a leader is disclosing when he knowingly allows his team members to do anticipatory obedience?” Trust Lulu to ask deep questions.
“He poses as a democrat in the robes of a dictator” I said.
“And the team member who engages in anticipatory obedience?”
“Hmmm… Cowardice, I guess. Servility.”
“It takes an enlightened or evolved leader to avert anticipatory obedience, and invite candid views even if they are dissenting.”
“Exactly. That is why we have to allow people to express their views, and think for themselves.”
“It must begin at home; we have to allow our children to think for themselves.”
“I remember what William Kingdon Clifford said.” Lulu looked at me. “There is one thing in the world more wicked than the desire to command, and that is the will to obey.” Lulu, fluttered his wings and jumped to perch on my shoulder. Jill gave us a curious look and closed her beautiful blue eyes.
Vivek S Patwardhan
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Loved the blog! We need a dialogue around this
Interesting piece as usual Vivek. The causes of anticipatory obedience could well be the subject matter for another blog!
Fabulous. Really learning to read between the lines, reading your blogs. 😀
Vivek narrates eloquently what many authors simply skirt…anticipatory obedience wins approval, be it from dictators. Jack the Great Dane has understood the world when he claims ‘my master’s wish is my command’ …may the tribe of Jacks remain insignificant in the society of today….’wishful thinking’ is what Lullu might mutter as he perches on Vivek’s shoulder….
This theme has been explored by Sudhir Kakar before, as in a psychoanalytic take of Indian society. The collective in our society socialisés a subconscious sublimation of evil, by projecting a covert approval of a figure willing to exert that control. That figure recognizes this want in society and legitimizes his or her authority on their behalf. So this tacit approval being hidden from overt evidence preserves the individual appearance of ethical conduct. The price is the subversive control exercised by the authority figure. The figure and society both are willing to stretch their codependent relationship, until somthing gives.
Like what happened in Germany. Or in Chile.
Milgram experimented on obedience of the individual. Zimbardo experimented beyond individuals in a simulated prison.
Today, Thaler and more centrally, Cass Sunstein examine how virtual media polarizes attitudes, and how single dissenters are critical voices for progress in society. They build on what Kanhenann asked us to be mindful of in terms of cognitive bias.
For heartful guidance Scott Barry Kaufmann and Jonathan Haidt provide routes to authentic conduct.
Anticipatory obedience is a powerful tool. If applied to the external world it eliminates conflicts with others. If practiced like a daily yoga, it eliminates inner conscience making you Atmanirbhar!
Very appropriate for present Indian affairs in all the fields, mainly media and poltics.
I have faced this in my meetings. Seniors have expressed their differences with me only in person after the meeting. I had to struggle all the times to get their opinion by heart.
Very interesting narrative.
Thanks Vivek.
D.G.Thakurdesai
Super. Loved it. Deep meaningful and so true of the situation at work and in society. I love the way you engage with all the characters( for want of a better word) in your life.
Brilliant.
I loved the piece. It’s engaging.
Beautifully described Sir. Anticipatory obedience – the process of quickly resolving conflicts before they start, in the presence of anybody in power! I see this everywhere, whether at home or workplace. At home children do this because they have found it avoids scoldings and punishments, while adults enjoy their brief moments of power over them and are glad that their children are obedient! I see the danger of raising such obedient children. Imagine how their lives would be when they grow up. Frankly, are we all not engaging in anticipatory obedience some time or the other? We all know how we tend to agree or do things in accordance to that person in power, even though we don not want to. We even rationalize our own actions. But the fact is simple – we just want want to avoid that conflict. It takes courage and ability to express effectively in order to be true to your own self.
Is it our early childhood experience that makes us resort to anticipatory obedience ?…actually it is so much easy to blame our heritage, our past, our neighbours for whatever has gone wrong:)….But we were always told to follow what the elders said. Even if our young mind had diagonally opposite view. Then came along some smart sibling or a cousin who enthusiastically agreed with the person giving the command and received instantaneous praise. The reward for anticipatory obedience had jsut been doled out !!!
MAy the Award for Anticipatory Obedience disappear and may those who aspire for it go and take some advice from LuLu but not from the Great Dane :))